Sorry it has been so long since I posted a blog but as we all know life can get crazy!
First let me fill everyone in the worthless piece of crap that murdered my cousin. She was sentenced to 22 years with NO possibility of parole. YEAH!!!!!!! I wish she would have been charged with 1st degree murder and given the death penalty but this is a better scenario then her walking away and not serving time. At least she cant hurt anyone else or leave a giant whole in anyone elses family. Good riddance to bad rubbish.
So there has been so much going on in my life some of which I will not mention on here till later. Lets just say I have made some big life decisions. So my posts might get a bit more interesting. Guess we will have to wait and see.
I do have a question out there for all of you. A good friend of mine posed a question the other day that made me really think. We were discussing relationships and a decision she was trying to make. She realized recently that she still loves a guy she dated awhile back and she said she knows he cares about her and that they would be wonderful together but he is currently in a relationship. This is where the decision she is trying to make comes in. She feels like she should do everything in her power to win him back/or prove to him how wonderful they would be together because she feels if she doesnt she may never have the chance to see just how good they could be together or she might miss out on her "soul mate" I felt that if he is in a relationship she should just leave it be. If they arent meant to be together they will eventually break up then she can pursue him, but she said if you really love someone arent you suppose to fight for the one you love? She then gave me the question that made me ponder. If for some reason my boyfriend had started dating someone else before we had decided we were together what would I have done knowing in my heart we belonged together. I couldnt answer her.
What would I do? Part of me says I would fight and do everything I could to show him we belonged together but this is two years later and I know what I would have missed out on.....so two years ago would I have done the same thing or sat back and hoped for them to break up? I honestly dont know? What would YOU do? Do you love someone and know in your heart you belong together? Are you willing to pull out all the stops to try and gain their love for your own? Or are you content to sit back and watch them give their love to another? Riddle me this.
